The Top 10 Backpage Alternatives in 2021 – The Best New Escort Sites Ranked
If you've been looking for a backpage replacement, this guide is just for you.
We've tested and reviewed almost 70 backpage alternatives, and now narrowed it down to the 10 best new sites.
These sites range from directories to classifieds, and have escorts that have rates anywhere from $50 to $500. No matter what you used backpage for, this list has something for you!
#1 Tryst.link - Best Overall Replacement
Tryst is our pick for the best new backpage replacement. It's the "home of the independent escort" so the providers here can charge rates that cut out any agency fees. You'll find sex for as low as $80, as well as some exceptionally stunning escorts that charge anywhere from $150- $500 an hour.
One thing I love about Tryst is that the providers here actually pick up the phone! Every profile is verified and active, the response rate is incredible.
On the Tryst homepage you can browse listings for escorts near you. If you plan on traveling, you can use the search bar to find escorts in other cities. You can also use filters to search for men, women, couples, and non-binary providers.
All the escorts on Tryst are verified, so you won't see any spam, ads, or fake accounts, which is a big advantage over other backpage replacements like bedpage or doublelist. Each provider also lists their contact info, rates, travel schedule, bio, and availability. The contact info is very detailed, you'll find their instagram, twitter, email, phone number, and website, making it easy to get in touch and book short notice hookups.
Tryst was created by the people behind Switter.at, another good backpage alternative. Many of the sex workers using Switter started using Tryst as a place to post listings, giving it a big user base right from its start.
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#2 - Slixa
Slixa has super hot escorts. If you want to have one of the hottest nights of your life, Slixa delivers.
It's one of the pricier sites though, the 'VIP' section has ladies like Adahlia, who charge as much as $400 an hour. Okay, that's not exactly like backpage, but it's still fun to browse and if you can afford it, more power to you.
There's also girls who aren't VIP. They cost closer to backpage girl rates, and will be anywhere from $50 to $200 an hour.
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#3 - Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison isn't an escort site per say, but it's definitely a good alternative to backpage, and one of my new favorite places to go for sex.
The site itself is meant for married people looking for casual sex and affairs. Since not everyone is willing to date a married person it's easier to find horny women here if you're okay with keeping their secret.
They have a system where free members can message paid members, but free members can't message each other. The result is most women on the site are using it for free and guys have to pay, which balances out the guy to girl ratio really well.
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#4 - Seeking
Seeking Arrangement is another interesting alternative to backpage. You can use the site to post ads for sugar relationships, in which one partner takes care of the other with cash and gifts, in exchange for regular sex.
A lot of the women on this site are broke college students or hot women working 3 jobs and financially stressed.
I've used the site a lot, and it ends up costing as much as an escort would. Most girls on here are happy with a $100 dinner date, or you buying them a $200 dress in exchange for sex.
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#5 - AdultFriendFinder
AdultFriendFinder is one of the easiest ways to get laid for cheap.
There's a genius system behind the site. Free members can message subscribers, but not other free members. The result is many horny women use the site as free members, and wait for guys to message them.
It's way easier to meet women (or guys) on the site than any other hookup site i've found. And since the subscription is only $25 a month, i've saved money on escorts and scored lays I wouldn't have thought possible a few months ago.
I'd definitely recommend checking it out, it's been one of the best bangs for the buck post backpage.com
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#6 - Switter.at
Switter is both an escort directory and a social network for sex workers (and our pick for the 2nd best backpage alternative).
Switter works kinda like Twitter, but only sex workers can have profiles. You can follow your favorite escorts' and like their 'toots' (Switter's version of a tweet). Whenever they post you'll get updates in your news feed and see their latest musings, sexy pics, or any special rates. It's a brilliant system that adds a new dimension to purchasing sex, a vibe that's even better than backpage.com in my opinion.
You can also go straight to the listings section at https://listings.switter.at. To view the listings you'll need to make an account by signing up with your email. You can then search by location for any sex ads near you. These come complete with a menu and list of rates.
Like Tryst.link, Switter has no spam or ads, which is a must for a good backpage alternative in our opinion. Both are made by assemblyfour.com, a kind of non-profit sex worker co-op, which helps make it a super unique platform, and the future of finding escorts online.
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#7 - EscortDirectory
The name escort-directory.com sums this site up. It's one of the bigger backpage replacements, in a directory style.
Lots of backpage girls were posting here years ago, and now that backpage is down, this is their main spot to post.
One thing I love about this site is the cheaper rates. The girls might not always be as gorgeous, but you can really score sometimes and get a hot night for only $100. It depends on how hard you look.
Unlike our top two picks, there is more ads and spam on this site, which is one reason why we gave it a boot down the list. Be careful that the girls you message are verified and that their profiles seem legit.
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#8 - DoubleList
Doublelist is a site for personals ads and finding casual sex. If you used backpage to just post ads for free sex, then this is site is something you should check out.
About a year ago this site was a ghost town, but it's since picked up steam and has grabbed up most of the personals refugees.
If you want to find escorts it's a little more underground, you'll need to comb through the posts to find posts that offer rates.
The site is well organized and has different sections for M4M, F4M, M4F, etc. You can post pictures and see others.
It does censor your language automatically, which is kind of funny. Instead of seeing "looking to suck some big cock tonight" you might see "looking to wetten a large phallus this evening".
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#9 - Bedpage
Bedpage is a site that looks the same as backpage, but is pretty much all fake ads and posts.
It's almost worth checking out just to see how ridiculous the spam is. If you can find an actual legit ad on the site I will buy you a beer.
Even in San Francisco, where backpage used to really shine, you'll just find the above fake listings. Fake bedpage ads are easy to spot from a mile away, tons and tons of emojis.
I have a theory that the owners do not allow anyone to post real ads because they do not want to get in trouble with the law like backpage.com did. It also appears that ebackpage, yesbackpage, and ibackpage are all owned by the same person, since they all link to each other on their homepage.
Even though it's not a good alternative, we still include it as an honorable mention to backpage.com.
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#10 - Rubmaps
Did you ever use backpage to score some quick $30 blowjobs or handjobs? Then rubmaps might be a good alternative for you.
It shows all the massage parlors that have 'happy endings'. Each parlor shows the names of the masseuse (so you can ask for them) and the price they charged for an erotic massage.
You can then read other peoples' reviews to learn the details of what you can expect and how to navigate your way to getting jerked off.
The downside of rubmaps.com is it does have a $20 monthly fee to see other reviews. But you can still see all the parlor details and locations for free.
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#11 - EscortMonkey
Eroticmonkey has cheap escorts and hookers that always pick up the phone. It's one of my favorite new sites like backpage.
Rates here will be as low as $50 an hour if you look hard enough, and even lower if you don't want penetration or just a quick hand job. There's also expensive escorts too, but more like $200 expensive, not $1000+.
On each girls' profile page you can see all their measurements and rates. They also leave a hand written bio where they make their pitch on why you should fuck them over their competitors.
Erotic monkey also lets people leave and read reviews about each escort, but you have to be a premium member to see the reviews, which costs $30 a month. I'd recommend skipping premium and using the free version, unless you are really curious what the reviews have to say.
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#12 - AdultSearch
AdultSearch.com is just as much a sex guide as is it is an escort site. You can see listings for local working girls, but right next to that there's lists of strip clubs, erotic massage parlors, sex shops, and even gay bath houses. They also have a forum where you can ask questions or see recommendations for escorts.
The way it's structured makes it good for planning a vacation or trip to a new city. You can reserve an escort to take care of you, and plan a sexy itinerary all in one spot, essentially.
If you are an escort it's important to note that they charge $10 a month to post an ad, and you can only post one ad at a time unless you email them with more verification.
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#13 - Eros
Eros is an elegant version of Backpage with a lot of sexy classified ads offering a slew of erotic services to anyone who needs them.
Unfortunately, some of these posters came under the long hand of the law resulting in a Homeland Security raid because they allegedly offered a bit more than massages and this scrutiny seems to echo the likes of the Craigslist Personals and Backpage shutdowns. But Eros has a system in place that allows anyone using the website to report suspected trafficking, so all users can enjoy a variety of nice, clean, and legal services.
Users will see a beautiful array of VIP college girl escorts, milfs, XXX stars, and more models from their fantasies. Each post has descriptive bios, age, name, location, availability, services, and more relevant info after selecting someone special.
Extra subcategories on the eros escort site are Trans, Dancer, and Tantra.
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#14 - CityXGuide
This site was actually taken down recently. Please read our post on cityxguide alternatives for more information.
CityxGuide mirrors Backpage’s escort classified ads section by listing them according to each country, state, and city. Many of the ads are dressed up in fun emoijis and logos, fonts with words and phrases that advertise the poster’s most valuable attributes, assets, and offered services.
These pages show the contact information of the poster, including email and phone numbers, and full body hooker pics along with a list of measurements, ethnicity types, body types, hours of operation, and incall and outcall availability.
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#15 - KinkyAds.org
Kinkyads.org is meant to be like backpage.com, but 'for kinksters by kinksters'. It's a good place to search for casual encounters if you want something more than just vanilla sex.
For escorts near you, try searching by city. Then narrow down your search even more by using the fetish categories. If you love feet fetishes, bondage, or ABF, then this is a great site to add to your bookmarks bar.
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Summing Up Sites Like Backpage
Here's a list of all the sites we reviewed for this guide, in addition to other sites we couldn't cover in detail.
- https://tryst.link
- https://switter.at
- https://adultfriendfinder.com/
- http://megapersonals.com/
- https://igotit.com/en/
- https://ashleymadison.com
- http://www.adultspace.com/listing.html
- https://www.eroticmonkey.ch/
- https://www.escortdirectory.com/
- http://www.girl-directory.com/
- https://adultsearch.com/
- http://www.doublelist.com/
- http://www.gfedating.com/
- - http://www.adultlook.com/
- - http://www.onebackpage.com/
- - http://www.adultlook.com/
- https://www.eros.com
- https://preferred411.com/
- http://www.adultgaga.com/
- https://www.world-escort-guide.com/
- https://www.skipthegames.com/
- - https://www.rubratings.com/
Backpage Alternatives For Sex Workers And Escorts
It's no secret that sex workers and escorts have been hurt hard by the backpage.com takedown. We can still rely on on-going clients, but finding new ones is a challenge without a reliable platform. We've all been scattered in every direction.
Some sites worth trying first are Switter, Tryst, and Slixa. Switter is the sex worker equivalent of twitter and the site I use the most instead of backpage. All the sex workers on twitter who have had their accounts banned and ghosted for no apparent reason, are now going to switter to advertise their services.
Like all things in sex work, experimentation is key. It might take a while to find a site that has the perfect clientele for you.
Backpage Replacements Going Forward
I used backpage.com for almost 5 years before it went down. The day it happened, I couldn't believe it. Everyday I was googling at least 10 times to find a good replacement for backpage, but never found anything that was quite a good match.
Backpage.com was a life saver for all of us. It's a place where you could go to meet some beautiful and gorgeous women, that would help you get through even your darkest times.
Leila was a 28 year old stunner from backpage.com, she was the most gorgeous woman I ever met, and had out-call rates of only $100 an hour. I met with her every week and she lifted me up and made life great again.
Backpage provided a priceless service, and while we'll miss it, it's good to know sites like Tryst.link and other backpage replacements will help us fill the void.
Did you have a favorite new site on the list? Or do you know any other good sites we missed? Leave a comment below!
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Hello, Sure glad I found this. Finding what I seek is not easy. It off the main track. Don’t forget ECCIE. Cheerio
Yes
Just joined
Looking for long term friend
What type ?
Do NOT USE skip the games! Vice is on it and doing stings.
Yes they are big time
Good looking out. Thank you. I just scratched off skipthegames from my list of sites to check out.
Please remember that every year around this time is when they do stings. They are actually on every site. NOT just ‘Skip’. The most important thing to do is ‘SCREEN YOUR CLIENTS’ with a fine tooth comb. Stop using txt message to converse and set up sessions. Safe in safer hotels and do not see 5 clients back to back. That will tip off hotel workers quickly. Or provide ‘Outcall’ to the clients residence. Post where you want, but be smart about it. NEVER post pictures of your genitalia! this is a ‘Red Flag’ to LE and they know that your desperate. Carry yourself as a Professional. Because this is a business for most of us.
Cheers, Briana Bourne
Where do you suggest is good place to post for a women looking to be financially compensated
Where?
Ty for the information
sure was about to use it
This is a great website to advertise
Will you give me some of that beautiful pussy and body and let me suck and lick and fuck
I want some young tight pussy and I wanna be able to fuck and suck
Well damn haha
Thanks for sharing this info ! In future i will definitely look into this site.
I’ll admit, I can’t be 100% sure on why ‘get on time’ has the name it does, but as far as I’m concerned, this place is a 5-star recommendation from your go-to expert on escorts. What’s the site all about, you ask? Well, if you’re looking for an escort in any place around the world contacts us.
I looking for submissive live in female and can fully comfortably house two or more. Single man well off and have a 5 bedroom house in the country. My name is Jack.
Do you ever come to the Reno Tahoe area
21lareina@gmail.com
Hello Jack I’m a submissive wanna give me a call
Yes send me your info at mitchkasab@yahoo.com
Where in the country do u live because I’m also in the country..
onebackpage is ran by the police
Actually it’s not! check your facts first. LE is not going to go to the trouble of setting up a server out of the country to catch SW. At the end of the day they are trying to catch ‘Trafficers’ NOT ladies that carry themselves like business professionals.
I have worked in the Adult industry since 2008. The goal of the Vice,State police and FBI is to get rid of Escorts,Escort agencies and Street pimps. Sadly the Craigslist murders in 2008-2009. All those pimps on Backpage ,street gangs running teenage girls from 2011-2017 caused this TROUBLE!! Those politicians like Kamala Harris used “My Redbook”.com as her reason to nail Backpages owner here in California
Youre absolutely correct. 1. Cops ? What cops? Do you mean the nypd, lapd or the pd from a Midwest town we never heard of?
2. There’s an heirarchy. And vice are little fish in a big pond.
3. Have you ever been arrested? Did you know it’s a desk appearance now? You realise this is not even 80 min to be detained, and a ticket?! What is so scary about that.
4. Try talking to vice. If you have a passion for minors and trafficking you may be able to find out you can help them. That means protection. And a great deed.
We are more on the same side than you think.
THINK ABOUT IT
tough part about these sites is always finding m4m escorts, though. but maybe that’s just my local area and wouldn’t be a problem in more populated places.
I’m not using these fucking dating sites any more, they suck and waste time. Craigslist was the platform that always got me laid M2M!
I’m a male escort and I’d have to say it’s very slow so me and my girlfriend do a couple session wich is way better
I looking for some sex now who wants a large dick beatin their wett pussy to death?
Stop acting like a child and you may find a proper date!
I would like to see what you look like Brianna you send me a pic
You’re a dumbass.
Come over to min for sex
Hey beautiful how you doing
Ebackpage.com
I’m an escort and I don’t like any of these websites. So if anyone can help me find any other ones I’d appreciate it. I was using the other board but I can’t anymore so help please.
Hey girl . I agree. I’m an escort too . And I don’t like any of those sites either . LC use to do it for me but now it’s slow way too many girls on there now . So I’m looking for other sites to post on too I may try out Bedpage .
http://www.craigerotica.com, make it the next backpage.com
afterdarkads.com
What? Where is kinkyads.org on this list? You all forgot one?
Bedpage, along with every other similar affiliated site are all Vice as well. Also, I don’t know how old this list is, but you forgot about privatedelights.ch. We use it heavily on the west coast. As well as a few others.
What other sites do you use?
The police set up stings and decoy ads on Bedpage.com in May 2018. They arrested girls in Atlanta and Texas from that. I think their goal is to post Fake ads and frighten us from advertising so clients won’t call any ad online!!
What are some others used more on the west coast?
What is going on with skipthegames escorts ? Please let me no some one ASAP?
Do Not use Skip The Games. Bed page came around in April 2018..it’s been infiltrated by FBI since July 2018 . December 2018 Skip the Games cops started posting decoy ads on there. I used the site until Christmas 2018..Police posted ad’s using my number as a joke. Had to block 60 men from across the country
I’ve been using skip since before bp went down. In in northern cali and I have never got caught up in a sting. It all sucks. I just wish there was a site that all providers backed and lifted each other rather than tear down women. We need to lift each other please
Well me and my boyfriend use skip the games and we’ve made over 1500 in a month two months time so it’s not bad but not reliable
Pretty decent
Not a fan of Tryst. I hate posting my own ads. Cityxguide is much better. I’ve worked for the same service in vegas for six years. All of my calls from them come from eros.com and cityxguide.com. Pvssy.com looks promising but is also new and pretty dead still.
Bedpage is a joke. Adultsearch is run by a vegas Escort service and is also a joke. To much spam on Erotic monkey is nothing but cheap locals.
When I do post my own ads (witch is not very often) it’s on free sites like lacanto.
CityXguide is my bet to definitely be the next bp.
Tryst is only for the girls that like booking their own calls. More power to them. I don’t like dealing with all the BS.
Oh yes and skip the games is nothing but cheap locals and I believe is owned by a straight up pimp who use to run girls in vegas.
Skip the Games was seized by FBI in December 2018. I used to advertise there from April 2018 until Christmas 2018. The cops are posting bots on sites and ads to lure customers to “stings”! Watch your number,cause the police can post your stuff and attach it to sites.
But they can’t do anything if you call or they call you and you ask if they’re law enforcement. They have to say yes or it’s entrapment or something??
That is total myth. Cops do not have to tell you if they are a cop. If that was true, nobody would ever get caught.
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Man to that
Cops entrap. The best thing to tell clients is ” if I were a cop I’d never entrap. ” The best thing is KNOWLEDGE is power. You don’t want a client who is too dumb to understand that statement.
New here,Neena Dior…is it me or do bbws get no love on these sites?
I get plenty. It’s all about your photos, title and your ad.
I am a BBW and get a lot of love. Like Alexa said, get yourself a photoshoot. I was able to get pics after opening an account on Model Mayhem.
This is a good website to find escort in Europe: https://weescorts.com
They don’t have many listings from the US.
Hey all you ladies in the comment section! please email me or lmk where I can contact you! 🙂
Yes around the same time they did sting at Harrah’s Atlantic city nj 07/16/19 and Tropicana at 07/20/19
They caught 2 of my friend the guys were white and cavalier the also when went for processing the beat them to get information out of them these tyrant so be careful this is a business that have to remain professional and protected
BestGfe (NYC/NJ Hobbyboard)
Southerngfe (Florida & South East US)
Humaniplex (California)
Grainbeltnews (midwest)
Twitter (not a bp replacement but you can find all sorts of talent on there)
Theotherboard
Tnaboard
Follow me @EisleyValentine on Social and check out my videos on Pornhub!!
Eros.com upscale lady’s some adult film Actresses post on there
great information , after getting backpage & cl shutdown i face many problem , am looking for similar site with great result , cant 🙁 at the last time i got https://pickescorts.com/ really happy with this
https://devozki.com/ this site is the best directory in Eastern Europe
Very nice article. internet dating is the upgrade form of old dating. it is very useful now. I am also from the same field and i am providing Denver escorts in Colorado area as you wroght, we are making it on internet. http://denverladies.com/
PrivateDelights.ch
Amazing site.
P2P.
Great site
I been trying to get verified on there since April. They only let certain people in.
We’ve been doing the fetish thing me and my man and we screen very well but since BP has shut down we’ve been using STG we’ve found many good partners that into eating creampies ect but we don’t know many sites to use Steffandlisa25@gmail
Need some love and in need of a good site
Whoever u are God bless you forbthis hunny.. The search has been real. But at least I ran across this..muah muah muah
Sucks that backpage went down. That was a gold mine. Yesbackpage.de just went out too. Found this new site called afterdarkads.com. It looks promising.
I am looking for a decent websites to post on. I used to post on Backpage and I’m on cityxguide and a couple of others. Does anyone have any suggestions?
yaright
there are a lot of sites comign and going. I am on eros, slixa, tryst and my NEW fav is afterdarkads.com its free to post and they have a verified feature. i get the most calls from tryst then afterdarkads.com
Omaha here, You have to love the comments and/or questions about sites that they covered in the article. Read much?
Any and all Colorado Springs gentlemen what sites do you love to find your providers on?
Eros
A escort out of Beaumont but I move between Beaumont,Louisiana Lake Charles area and Houston and skip the games as my go-to. They’re very slow and not dependable so I’m looking and have been searching for a new site. So if anyone has any ideas please contact me at cuppycake3991@gmail.com…
Only sites I see that are good on this list are Eros, and P411. The rest are pretty much garbage.
My wife is catching on! I like them young
You are a total idiot who cannot even give the correct name of the sites, like erotic monkey, not escort monkey. Your assessments of the sites are very superficial and subjective, you have absolutely no respect for sex workers and are a total arrogant and ignorant prick.
Let’s call me Miss M for now. There is a few things I want to declare from dear old NYC.
First of all I’m seeking a partner. I’m a mentor. And in this climate the only way to survive is to pair up : my apt is located in the East 70’s and allows for solo and duo. The possibilities are endless.
The second thing is this: this is a broken business model. And until women stop looking at silly ideas and look forward to an idea that will lead them to the most powerful objective : CLIENTS. WE ARE GETTING NO WHERE. This industry is failing. 67 % reduction in our clients. But 90% increase in our clients searching for us.
I have solved this business model. Why is no one listening? Cuz women are so busy being competetive that unless I introduce this as an idea not as myself. NO ONE LISTENS. HOW IS THAT FOR RIDICULOUS.
SO YOU KNOW WHAT’S SLOWING ME DOWN? BEGINNING TO BUILD A SITE THAT LOOKS LIKE THE IDEA. NOT ME. SIGH.
But I only care about 2 things: the clients, the honor system among women.
I’ve solved everything else….. Now what
P. S. Verifying for cops is superfluous. Because they’re actually really good at fake IDs …. ??? Lol just saying.
Any recommendations for Fargo ND area? New to this(to make it clear i’m searching for WFM)
Private Delights.ch is also a good escort site. Easy review process, and reviews are easily visible. I just wish they took more than Bitcoin. That’s where Slixa has one over on PD. Slixa accepts credit cards. Anyway, try PD, it’s a well designed site. Simple to use.
They did a very stupid thing shutting down bp. Pushed things underground. You cant stop the industry/oldest profession.
BP made it safer for many sw and also could help le find and keep tabson the trafficers who are a stain on the indistry.
Threw the baby out woth the dirty bathwster they did
They seized CityxGuide today omg
Yes an skip the games too what’ other sites is there
Skip the games is shut down completely now aswell as of today is there any other sites I’m in need of work all the other sites don’t sound realistic an fast like skip the games
Anyone ever use city-girls.com ? Milwaukee/Chicago area?