how to handle anxiety and guilty when having an affair

[HornyHedgeNight]

might seem like a silly or obvious question, but i'm wondering how to deal with guilt and anxiety when hooking up with people outside my relation on affair sites. any genuine help to offer here?

 

[uncanney-valley-porn]

it's a tough one, hornyhedge! had my fair share of affairs back in the day and the only things that worked were either keeping the affair interactions to an absolute minimum or cutting off completely, unfortunately. guilt and anxiety are part of the package it seems

 

[MenacefromVenice]

be clear with yourself why you're doing it firstly. is it a fun escapade one night here and there? be upfront with the person, and deal with the anxiety as it comes. cheating will always make someone feel guilty or anxious cause you're lying to your partner. if you've considered opening up to your partner first, you might find some answers there and then see where you want to go