best sites to find escorts?

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Hi, I'm curious about which sites are best for finding escorts online. There are so many out there, and I’m looking for reliable recommendations, especially sites that prioritize safety and quality. Any insights on where to look, tips for finding reputable profiles, or things to watch out for? Thanks in advance for any advice!
 
If you’re looking for reputable escort sites, a few established platforms come to mind. Tryst and Slixa are well-regarded, with verified profiles to connect with real sex workers. Both sites are known for prioritizing security and allowing clients to browse detailed profiles.
For local options, AdultWork can be a good resource in certain regions and includes user reviews, which can help you make informed choices. EroticMonkey also features a rating system, but keep in mind it's more popular in some areas than others - it should work well in bigger cities to find escorts online.
 
if you're in Europe, try Eurogirlsescort, this one's an established site to find escorts. Also happyescorts is a good one, not sure if it works in USA though.
 
Well, I have heard of a lot of these sites.

But I'm wondering are escort sites real?

Especially the ones showing listings in the United States.

I remember visiting Italy when I was younger and visiting sex workers there and it was no big deal. There were various laws the women had to know. But it wasn't anything as crazy as the United States law which is a total ban.

So are these escort sites real or fake?
 
I think most of them are real.

Escorts, prostitutes, sex workers, hookers, whatever you call them...they have to make a living, and they will post ads at all these sites.

It's not like the police are just scouting out online websites (especially from Europe) hoping to catch one John in the act of paying a girl.

You have to be pretty dumb to get caught with a working girl especially with how discreet the arrangement is. You text her, make arrangements, pay, and then be cool.

Police are too busy busting up trafficking and sex crimes. They're not chasing down escorts.

Besides escorts found a way around the law. They don't sleep with guys for money. They just get paid for their time. Sex is always optional and not paid.
 
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Yes and no.

Not all escorts are sex workers. Some literally just get paid for their time and company.

But yes, many are. And since they have terms and conditions, escorts are not exactly the same as prostitutes (even though I think they've retired that word). Sex is a gift an escort gives you for doing everything right.

It might also be wrong to suggest cops NEVER entrap people looking for paid sex.

It is possible, especially in the United States. I wouldn't bet a few months in prison on it.

Just because escorting and drugs are tolerated does not mean that they always look the other way. If someone has a bad day, they might not take pity on you and you might end up in jail.

So if I were looking for a male escort (lol) I would make sure to research and talk to the person first, make sure nothing is sketchy, and see if there are any other "reviews" on escort sites.
 
OK this is all well and good. But what I am wondering is are escort sites legit?

How do I know if they are fake - either cops posing as one, or scammers, or catfishers?

Are there are any signs to look for that show this is an obviously fake ad?
 
Someone said male escort and so that got my attention.

I think you got to investigate the escort thoroughly.

Research them online, see reviews, like the other guy said. Or you could see if they have any socials or internet site.

But even better than that, talk to them first through texting or phone call. Ask questions. Get a real photo and don't settle for their cover photos. Even if they want a small deposit it's worth it to make sure they're legit.

If they are a scammer they won't have consistency in their answers. Scammers just memorize some lines and but don't follow through. They will give up if you question them.

One time a guy contacted me and claimed to have footage of Big Foot.

He answered some questions right, like gave official coordinates, and location last seen, and a detailed description. He wanted $100 for his story and collection of photos.

But then I started asking him questions about what Big Foot actually looks like according to legitimate government records, which I have seen online.

And he clammed up and stopped replying. He didn't have an answer because I basically gave him the third degree.

So it's the same with any scammer. Scammers are lazy and will not do the extra work to prove they're the real thing.

Real escorts will have solid answers and will text you back and answer all your questions.

But just don't ask too much about sexual things because they can't talk about it openly for legal reasons. They're just as worried getting busted as you are!
 
Are you sure that scammer wasn't just hitting on you? Maybe he meant he would "play Big Foot" for you for 100$?

And if so, an escort for $100 is a sweet deal! If an escort looked like Catherine Zeta Jones and said 100$ I'd be all over that.
 
LatinaLover said:
OK this is all well and good. But what I am wondering is are escort sites legit?

How do I know if they are fake - either cops posing as one, or scammers, or catfishers?

Are there are any signs to look for that show this is an obviously fake ad?
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To the OP:

I think you're being a bit vague for people here.

There are definitely different types of scammers. Like you said, police, catfishers, money scammers or just terrible escorts who are sex workers, but don't intend to sleep with you.

First, there are definitely some strong signs of a "sting."

Most stings are big league stuff. Like escorts trying to scam people out of personal info, bank information, or even blackmail.

So I don't think most sex ads (even if they're fake) are actual police standing by ready to handcuff you. Unless you're a U.S. politician, then yeah maybe.
So right away you can see some warning signs: Don't prepay the whole cost, because obviously there's nothing you can do if she screws you out of that money or ghosts.

Never give any bank info or personal info, since personal details can be used in blackmailing schemes.

I also take issue with BigFootGuy's claim that you should pay the deposit.

I would not do this. I do see some escorts ask for deposits, but it's usually because they are well connected, established, and generally trusted by the community.

However, most escorts will not do this because this is actually a common scam. Making money from the deposits and then ghosting you.

Exchange cash in person. It's just the safest way to do it.

If you're that paranoid about the escort being a cop, then just don't talk about what you're "buying" and pretend as if you're just having sex with her for free. (But leave the money where she can see it before the act)

Then, even if they are a cop, they don't have your confession. They're looking for clear confession that you bought sex with money, which is the illegal act. Avoid that and just say you are paying the escort for her time and companionship, sex is not part of the deal.
 
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Mmmm, yes and no again.

Cops can definitely take you in for questioning or worse if you choose to meet with someone calling themselves an escort for paid sex.

But I agree, to an extent, with MILF Guy.

Cops are not that interested in busting consenting adults looking for sex online. Most of their efforts are spent busting pimps who use underage workers. And good for them, because sex traffickers are scum of the earth, shitbag human beings.

Aside from that, if you really want to know how to stay safe on escort sites then just learn to compare legit ads to fake ads. If you surf an escort site long enough, it will be easy to detect the differences.

Fakers are usually VERY CHEAP, like streetwalker cheap. The worst fakers also say outright I will blow you for 50$ or give you a half hour any hole for 100$.

Escorts are not supposed to talk like that.

Their language is very vague, like dating talk.

True, some escorts do make the mistake of describing sexual acts and giving prices, but they usually have other social proof going for them. Like a website, social media channels, lots of friends and followers, and just tons of details as to how their process works.

And yes, most of them do give text numbers and will answer sensible and non-invasive questions for you before you meet.
 
I admit I am not a smart man.

I see boobs and vagene and I just become Forrest Gump when it comes to good judgment and debonair wit. "Lieutenant Dan, titties! Titties, Lieutenant Dan!"

So, I am still confused about how are escort sites legal?

I know solicitation is legal in Nevada, or more specifically parts of Nevada.

So how the hell do I see all these escort ads on these new sites popping up?

I've seen them on SkiptheGames, Bedpage, YesBackpage, Tryst and many others.

And no, it's not just in the UK or Europe. It's in the US and girls are claiming to be from my home city ready to pounce.

I don't really care one way or the other, because I'm not sure I would actually enjoy the experience.

I'm just wondering why are they permitted to sell their goods if solicitation is illegal in most parts of the United States? And why aren't these websites doing anything about it?

Isn't that what got Backpage clobbered by the feds?
 
It's slightly more complicated than "boobs and vagene" but it's honestly very simple.

Escorting means the person is offering her time and companionship in exchange for payment. Nothing more.

This is not illegal in any US state. Because companionship is a legitimate business.

Like Beaver Girl mentioned, some escorts NEVER sleep with guys. Because them being there is the service. Some people legit just don't want to be alone sometimes.

But yeah, a lot of escorts do have sex with their clients because there's way more money in it.

Now, we know it's not illegal to be an escort. It's not illegal for you to have sex with an escort. It's only illegal if you pay directly for sexual acts.

It's just a loophole that works to the escort's advantage.

If the escort posts ads saying I will eff you for 200$ then yeah that is suggesting illegal activity.

But are the police or the feds really stalking individual social accounts? Highly unlikely.

Most these websites that post escort ads are either based overseas (probably where solicitation is legal) or block their location with VPNs and other software.

Therefore, it's really not a top priority of the "Feds."

The Feds have a long history with Backpage, and let's just say they were given time to change their tune...and they never played ball. Craigslist did, Backpage did not.

Since it was obviously a US-based company promoting paid sex, it was pretty easy for the Federal Government to just go in and yank them off the internet.

Therefore, it's entirely possible that an escort might post an ad on a European website, for US solicitation.

And hosting the ad is legal. Replying to the ad is legal. But you committing the act mentioned in the ad is still illegal.

Most Johns and sex workers who are arrested do it obviously - they go out in public view, trade money in public places, and are generally a nuisance to the community.

But I'm sure the vast majority of Johns never do get caught. I'm also sure some cops probably get "free services" in exchange for looking away. Who knows?

Point is, it's all just a loophole people find to legitimize the oldest profession in the world. But it's never going to go away and it's dumb to try and pretend it can be stopped.
 
Gotcha. Frankly, if I were to pay for sex in person (camgirls aside) I would probably just go to the Bunny Ranch and get an old fashioned 1970s lineup.

I've heard of dating auction events and websites. But I don't suppose there are auction sites for escorts, you know sites where you bid got escorts?
 
Sorry, I meant do you know sites where your bid got escorts, like name a price and see who takes it?

I know I sound cheap, but in my defense, I'm also very ugly and have an unpleasant personality.

Wait, that's not a good defense, is it?
 
Hmm, tough question.

I know WhatsMyPrice is auction style dating. But it's not really for escorting.

You might look into the app called Ohlala which was essentially built for escorts and Johns looking to connect locally.

Price could probably be negotiated. But I don't suspect any escort would appreciate an "auction style" (which usually means low ball) approach.
 
Does anyone know how the Rubmaps website works? A few friends have told me about it. I think it's listing all the secret "massage parlors" that are hiding in plain view.

But does anyone know if these listings are safe or real, for that matter? Basically just looking for a Rubmaps review.
 
I know of Rubmaps but I've never actually used it.

So thanks for the suggestion. I decided to review RubMaps and kind of get a feel for what it is. (Get a feel...I can't help but pun)

First off, unlike most other websites, RubMaps is all user content, and user generated.

No copy, no company endorsements, just humans reviewing places they've actually gone to.

Users are responsible for submitting the location, photos, reviews, and other info. The website doesn't even verify any content. It's up to users to police the content and make sure everything is true. The only thing they do police, obviously, is any reports of underage exploitation or abuse.

Anyway, the layout here is pretty basic. Besides a search bar, you can also sort by reviews, forum chat, or just fast-forward to the listings.

The website auto-tracks your basic city and state, for more personal recommendations. I got 10 cities listed near me that do Happy Endings, as well as more in multiple US states.

Cool beans, you even get a map of where the businesses are, though it's just as easy to click on the name of your city below the map in case you're traveling.

The main column has a grid for listing all the locations by name, as well as the "Provider" who ensures you get the kind of massage you want. Price is also listed as well as rating, and the distance from you.

Once you click on a massage parlor, you can read the "Ethnicity" of the masseuse, the time and price (More accurate here than the front page), as well as whether you get perks like a Sauna or Jacuzzi.

There is also data listed for what method of payment is accepted (usually cash, lol) and if there is parking for big trucks or not.

Below the header is the address, phone number and hours.

But I would suggest reading over the reviews of users who have been there, who might pass along some tips on how to talk to the providers, other staff members, and how to basically go about this discreetly. There is also name information listed, like the name of the person who rubs you off, as well as rating and date.

Only real downside here is that you cannot read the detailed user reviews until you get the premium version of RubMaps.

This costs $49 a month, or 6 months for $175 or 12 months for $249.

It's pricey but I suspect if you're a regular visitor, it's worth it. The other users help keep each other safe, and share protocol, tips, notes, and warnings to look out for so you can avoid embarrassment and or po-po interference.

Overall, very cool website. Too bad it's so pricey though.
 
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